Glad you settled on a gun that seems to suit you. I am an XDm fan myself. Natural grip and I feel like I can get up close to bore line so that recoil does not flip too bad. Glock is my second choice, though I don't own one. They are ugly as homemade sin, but I find them very easy to apply where needed. Ruger fans seem to love that trigger, but it almost makes me queasy to operate. My brother-in-law allowed me to handle his sr9 and I thought I wanted one up to that point. Something about that break doesn't feel right to me, but he is a zealot about that gun.
Like I said, glad you found your's.