The acme of a great soldier is not one that wins Every battle, but one who wins without drawing his sword.
I believe thats in line with the general thoughts of this thread.
I have carried in Florida, and Ga. and never had an occasion to even put my hand on my weapon..much less have to draw it.
Much of that comes from situational awareness.
Watch people the next time you go out somewhere. Often they're in thier own little worlds..not paying attention to the people around them unless they get near. Being naturally curious I like to look around alot! Being cautious, I don't go where it looks like there may be trouble. this has saved me LOTS of grief.
The old adage "Fools rush in where angels fear to tread" comes to mind whenever I see a possible sticky situation...and believe me, I avoid it unless its unavoidable. Even then, knowing that I'm armed allows me to be calmer than the antagonist. BG's that are looking for trouble in a serious way tend to shy off when they see this...I think perhaps because they know somethings up..and the guy in front of them has an ace up his sleeve somewhere. The ones that are just upset, usually tend to reflect my calm after a few minutes of simple dialog.
Also, another thing to think about ...90% of your communication is conveyed with body language..NOT your mouth.
If you LOOK like you want a fight, then you'll probably get one. If you stay calm but aware..people see this and realize that you're not "the one" they're looking for. The art of conveying a message is a great one to practice!
That being said, I'm looking into getting my CCL for Tn, and would greatly appreciate any and all information and tips you guys/gals can give me!
my sis in law has hers here, and she said it took about 8 months for her to get it due to paperwork constraints, class availability, etc.