Please let me relate a point on this topic that goes to my earlier post. When I was in the Marine Corps, a fellow Corporal confided in me how his marriage fell apart. You see he was a big, bad Marine who was assigned to the MP's on the Marine Base at 29 Palms, California. His wife relied on him, (just as mosy women do), to protect her. One night while on patrol, he responded to a "Rape" call at his own home in base housing. Another Marine broke into his home and raped his wife.
Long story short, his wife blamed him for not protecting her because in her mind it was his responsibility to do so, and he failed. As irrational as it may seem, the fact that she conceded responsibility for her protection to her husband, (who in no way shape or form provide 24 x 7 x 365 protection for her), rather than maintaining it herself caused their marriage to fail.
Ladies, (and gentlemen), it is unreasonable to expect someone else to protect you. Rely on yourselves at all times, but be grateful for the times when someone else has your back.
Just my two cents.