My EDC is a 365XL, with a 12 round mag with pinkie extension and a Hogue grip sleeve. I also have several 15 round mags as backups. I have big hands and the grip sleeve helps me get a better grip. I like form factor and looks play into things (my XL is a Spectre) but its not ALL about looks. Like you said, to each his own. I notice on some of the Facebook 365 pages I'm on, there are many folks on there who flat out belittle folks who don't have their exact same configuration...I say, whether i get it or not, if you like it and it works for you, go for it.